Are you being the frustrated version of yourself. You know what I mean…that version of yourself that is still striving, still looking at your life like you haven’t done enough, the version that is looking for validation from others in your industry, the version of yourself that when you reach a goal you don’t even give yourself a chance to celebrate because there’s another goal to reach?
What does the frustrated version of you look like? Does any of this sound familiar?
- Constantly reading other people’s emails about their next level success and not realizing your own
- Looking down on yourself for not reaching some goal that you never really set for yourself
- Setting standards in your business based on what industry says
- Constantly comparing yourself to others and the milestones they reach in their lives and business
- Thinking you need something more than what God already placed inside of you therefore you never take the time to look within
- Downloading freebie after freebie even after you’ve already invested in your own private coaching
Hmmm that’s a total bummer!
Crazy thing is that the very industry that you are looking to for resources, wisdom, help, or support can be the most guilty contributor responsible for you being the most frustrated version of yourself.
You know what contributed to me being the frustrated version of myself….constantly looking to coaches to be the answer to the issues in my life and my business. What were my issues anyways?
I wanted faster results
I wanted validation that I was clear on my message
I wanted strategies to be able to reach my soul clients
I wanted the inside secret and inside scoop that they had
And none of this is inherently wrong!! The issue was….I was already clear on my message, I was already working with clients, I was already using my talents and gifts, God was already moving at the pace that was right for me, I just didn’t realize that the inside scoop or secret ingredient was within me all along.
So what’s next when you just want more of what you are already doing?? And nothing seems to be working? It’s time to go deeper!! It’s time to look within, It’s time to do the inner work or what we call mindset work. It’s time to work on self-sabotaging subconscious programs that are operating in your life!
Stay tuned for the next blog as I tell you a story that gives you more insight on this whole phenomena of being the Frustrated Version of Yourself!!
About the Author:
Justina holds a Bachelor’s degree in Psychology, a Master’s in Human Service Counseling focused in Business, and additional training in the Emotional Freedom Technique and Splankna Therapy. She is an Amazon #1 International Best-Selling Author, Huffington Post Contributor and Contributing Author of Notes to Younger Women. She also serves as a Commercial Makeup Artist to Professional Photographers, Marketing and Advertising Teams. She is an intuitive business coach and Christian energy healer. She calls herself The Soul-Purpose Alignment Strategist. She helps new and aspiring Christian Coaches and service based Mompreneurs to overcome limiting beliefs surrounding their purpose and their call to create in the marketplace.
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